Other than the loss of life, that is the worst thing with that whole ordeal.
It damages the image / reputation of the wider bodymod scene.
That is why myself and others here, give the best advice we can, in an open forum, where people can be called out on poor advice, share their good knowledge and experience, provide information, guide them to trusted references etc.
What I am trying to say is, if you have any questions, just ask, don’t try to go it alone…That is what we are here for