I think the word is “niche”. Yeah, Japan is famous for many things, Karate, Geishas, Robotics, Anime, etc, but those are not the common norm here. Not every girl in Japan looks like a Geisha Anime Doll that knows Karate and is super efficient in Robotics.
In Japan very few people actually knows English, and is a small island that makes it hard for any Japanese only speaking person to be aware of what happens in, pretty much any other country, they depend exclusively on public media translations to get their news.
Have to keep in mind that other countries like USA speak English, As of 2019, there were 55 sovereign states and 27 non-sovereign entities where English was an official language.
Spanish another bunch of countries. But Japanese… only the people from this tinny island speak it.
Which means, their culture is pretty separated from the rest of the world, they have even their own standards for electronics, they even have their own “ISO” standards called JISC.
What the world knows as an N95 mask, in Japan although we can get N95 masks, they have their own set of rules and tests that they have to pass, FDA approved means nothing here if it doesn’t pass their own set of rules and standards made by them. The Japanese take pride in being “different” from the rest of the world, they don’t see themselves as “special” or “superior” at all, they are just “not the same as everyone else”.
Of course, as you might already know, not everyone even in such a homogenous country is made the same, and there is people who wish for a change, or to alter the common standards, people who in their head have established a relationship with their environment that pushes them to believe that “there could be another way” “a better way” a more “comfortable”, “efficient”, “kind”, “smooth” or whatever your perception of a positive priorities make sense. As in everything, specially in such a closed country, there will be people who is raised the same way who came to the same conclusion, based on their own history, art, science, movies, songs, or even just the shared personal struggles of everyday’s social interactions, there are many who would decide that they want to dive deeper into a “lost” art, or a “radical” point of view. Something that will fill their days with a “different” or unique purpose in which they will feel “liberated” from the everyday lifestyle that they believe everyone else lives.
Maeda Keroppi (follower of VivoKey Japan and Dangerous Things), one of the most well known body modder Japanese, known for his beagle forehead mod and many other things has a public twitter account.
And from the 125.8 million people who lives in Japan, his twitter follower base is just 11.4K, and this includes many Non-Japanese followers.
Even if everyone of that 11.4K where Japanese people this is just 0.009 of the total population in Japan. I would hardly consider that “massive”.
Japanese are very private with their emotions, and inside everyone’s mind there is many things that make no sense for a more open culture, but if you get to know them and their reasons, they kinda… make sense somehow… per example
You see this person and think, oh well he might be a little “unique” somehow…
But turns out that he lost his wife to cancer, he read somewhere that cancer is represented by a pink ribbon, so he embraced the pink color and in order to remember his lost wife he decided to dress on her clothes or clothes that reminded her, but he didn’t fit the outfits, so he decided to honor her memory by making his own clothes out of things that remind him of his lost wife. (This is not real, nor I know this guy) But it kinda would make sense and it’s not totally an impossible story to happen on this type of society.
Then you have other famous people like 51 year old introvert that majored in Mathematics, Hideaki Kobayashi aka “Sailor Suit Old Man.”
Or the Japanese resident Australian stunt actor, professional wrestler, singer and YouTuber Richard Magarey aka Ladybeard going around their daily life with this alternative “persona” of a 15 year old Japanese school girl.
In Japan traditionally there was theatrical plays called Kabuki in which man used to portray female roles, so cross-dressing has been a part of the actual Japanese culture…
Such things impulse Japanese people who defy the “normal”, and this is been always like this, almost 100 years ago, in a time that everyone wore kimonos on the streets, they started to see “modern girls” or as they call them “moga” in the streets, girls with short hair, pants, and outfits that they saw on movies, and this where the crazy people back then.
I mean, we even have full Japanese, “Chicanos” (Mexican descendent Americans) who know very little of Mexico, or Catholic religion but they still wear and tattoo themselves with images of Virgin Mary, eat rice tacos and ride low-riders.
To be honest, I’ve never seen the school girl cross-dressers, nor this j-chicanos, nor someone with tattoos (except the guy who put my microchip implants), nor someone in some BDSM party. But what type of international “news” is to show the old boring Japanese life of a guy that works from 9 to 6, eats cup noodle ramen and goes back to sleep, this is a way more common view of Japan.
Just people trying to put their hours in and finish their daily work responsibilities to be worth their next paycheck. Not every dreamer’s cup of tea, but for them is good enough and not calling unwanted attention on them. They all enjoy little things like reading books, watching some sports, drinking with co-workers, gambling in pachinko and knowing that their life is lived with “purpose” by providing to their families by working on the most stable company they can be hired, instead of venturing into the unknown and leaving their families expectations with an uncertain future because their lack of stability on a niche job. Or at least they try…
When a Japanese applies for a job is normal to research the company you want to work on, how old is being standing, what is their value, and how stable it has been, the oldest, largest the company it is, the better, rarely someone wants to venture on small startups.
But then again, by influence of foreign countries, a little more Japanese try their luck at some startup, some do somewhat good, some just lost time and money in the eyes of others.
And you can see on that photo a reality of Japan
More than 67.4% of the population won’t have children in a society where the working class pays for the pension of elder people AND their own children, the mayor part of the focus is more on survival than to “express” how they “feel inside”. So those rare cases of “interesting” people and gatherings are more of a distraction, a temporary theatrical show that entertains them before they have to go to work again in “real life”, and they are appreciated as a form of interesting entertainment. Due to their normal life monotony, Japanese people is very curious about anything different, being among their own or foreigners, they love a little chitchat with someone different, but when the day is over, they didn’t really change anything much inside them, and just go to continue their normal lives now with an interesting story to tell on their next lunch break or drinking party at work.
So in reality, it isn’t that exiting, and like @amal said, Japanese are still just humans. A little limited by their lack of knowledge of foreigner language and culture and too busy trying to make a living while they can.
All this is obviously just part of my limited experiences, observations and comparisons with some Mexican or some American culture I got to know growing up.