It’s okay - I know that you’re frustrated by now, and I can understand it. I apologize as well for being a bit harsh… I hold the bodmod-world really close to my heart, and I feel the need to defend it quite often
I get what you mean… I was more referring to “the guy who made the install with you”, nothing more, though of course things would be a lot easier if you had been a regular customer already and he did tons of stuff to your body I have three guys who work on me (1 piercer, 1 bodymodder and 1 tattoo artist), and all three know me quite well by now, so there is a big amount of trust on both sides and we can openly talk about expectations and problems and solve everything if there is trouble. I might just be so used to that that I sometimes forget that many bodmods are just a service between strangers.
I might be in “defense mode” again, but that’s a problem with routined people in about every job - imagine, you doing your job for maybe decades, and a customer comes in for the first time, telling you how to do an install for him you have done tons of times before. Like I said, if he had a bad day (or is an asshole^^) he might just have wondered why you try to explain his job to him.
Still, this is not a professional behaviour - every, especially first time, customer has to be treated respectful, and all the questions and worries have to be taken serious. Even if the piercer has answered them a hundred times already, it was the first time for you.
I think that’s a pretty serious price for an x-Series install… but I’m not so sure about US prices, of course.
Did he give you any aftercare instructions? Any papers on how to care for your new mod? If not, that’s not really good service, to be honest. And it’s a behaviour I’m not used to - my piercer always “orders” me to come in if anything’s not going well (and even if everything goes fine, he always asks about the healing process when I visit him next time), and my bodymodder, who lives a two-hour train ride from my home, gave me an emergency telephone number to call him if I have any questions or if strange things happen. When my flexNExT started to behave bad, he even called me back at 10 pm just to offer some advice (he couldn’t do more, because his studio was on lockdown).
That incredible kind of service is what I am used to, and I’m seriously baffled that you made such a bad experience…
How does the implant feel by now? Is the nerve pain getting (at least slightly) better? Can you feel it if you carefully poke around in your hand?