Hey mate, if you don’t ask, you don’t get!!!
You asked for help, Here it is, Not EVERYBODY will be as closed minded as you think, especially in the Piercing world, the only real hold up with piercers is, legality or their perception there of, but if you approach correctly, you might just succeed.
Try approaching your local piercing shops (How to approach a professional) is a guide Amal put together, to get you started.
( Have you checked the partner map )
Make sure you do it in person, you will be much less likely to be turned away.
Also Checkout
WIKI - BEGINNERS GUIDE to implants & becoming a cyborg 🤖, you will find some further links that may be of use, including self / assisted install if you have no other option
You can try your medical professionals, Drs, Nurses, medics
Some people have even approached Vets before ( The animal kind not the military kind )