Thatās really the crux of the issue. Sexually harassment isnāt quantified by fear of physical aggression for everyone - some people are just uncomfortable broaching that subject with people they donāt feel close with, and an environment of sexually charged language (even if it doesnāt bother you, the intended recipient of the ājokeā) can still fundamentally cause other people to be massively uncomfortable.
Itās along the same reason people say thereās a systemic problem of sexism in the tech sector - a male-dominated industry filled with people who often donāt know or understand social cues as well as they think has created an environment that is conducive to making non-males uncomfortable being a part of that industry, which perpetuates the cycle even further. Iāve yet to see personally any sort of weird/sexually charged power abuses that were based on a sense of physical domination, but Iāve seen plenty of people make really awkward, uncomfortable comments that Iāve been confided in that makes other non-males very uncomfortable and honestly unwelcome.
Itās not that all tech industry people are sexist or anything like the sort - most tech people Iāve worked with are onboard with trying to be inclusive and are all for a more diverse workplace, and Iām lucky to work on a team that is majority female (2/3rds women, Iām non-binary, and 2 men) where this isnāt really an issue. Itās just that itās often times that these people donāt understand how those offhanded comments contribute to the systemic problem they want to address.
Mh, thatās actually one of the reasons I prefer to work with men - itās usually a lot more uncomplicated, usually more direct. I can take quite a verbal punch, got no problem with that, but I can be pretty direct, too, so this can be problematic with (over?-)sensitive people.
Thatās why, in this case here, Iām more on Roscoās āsideā (if there is something like a āsideā, dunno how to express it better), for itās just the way Iām used to.
Donāt know if we mean the same thing, but do you really think Rosco would pierce his dick???
I wouldnāt put it past anyone in this community. Weāre all some weird fucks so I think PAs are far from the strangest. (Whoās the guy with an xEM in his cock?)
WOW, just playing catch up, that blew up quicklyā¦ anyway, the nitrile gloves comments were interesting.
It was an xSIID, he tried it for / as pearling.
He couldnāt leave it alone long enough to heal. so removed it
Rosco did allude to having a Prince Albert
TALKING TO HIS MUM
Soooo, make your own mind up on that one.
As āweirdā as it sounds, I would like to see his skin tunnel (he knows what i am talking about) and ask him if it would fit an xSeries and whether he tried it or not.
Iām not even joking, nor do I think he would be offended with me asking.
Hell, there are lots of nice silicone beads, rods, and other stuff for thatā¦ might be a lot more comfortable.
Maybe one could talk to Steve to make some out of glowing silicone - could be funny for that use case^^
Leads me to a simple question - why? Just curious^^
Good luck
Youāre from Germany as well, right? Maybe you could try to contact Trust Wholesale, they are Steveās exclusive partners in Germany if I get it right.