As a heterosexual white European male I am most definitely not in anyoneâs definition of âminorityââŠ
I was also bullied in school, was something of a loner, and made fun of at timesâŠ
Children are vicious.
I will tell jokes that I find funny. Incongruity is part of humour.
You can create examples that make almost any behaviour problematic. That doesnât mean that all behaviour is problematic but that life is a lot more nuanced.
Jokes about homosexuality can be funny, just like jokes about disabilities, race, stereotypes, aristocrats,âŠ
Would you say that jokes about incest are acceptable? Probably not, but I can point you at a one liner that I laugh at where that is part of the joke.
Are we going to self censor to the point where people are afraid to say anything because they are scared of the potential reaction?
Shouldnât we instead try and foster a welcoming community where people can feel free to express themselves, but that if someone is offended they discuss it, and move on.
My wife and I have pet birds. I could find it offensive when people talk about killing two birds with one stone. Does that mean that we should ban idioms from the forum?
My intent is not to cause offence, but I can guarantee that at some point I will offend someone. Even if itâs just because âwhat do you know aboutâŠâ?
As for the fact that I started this comment pointing out I am not a minority⊠here is a counterpoint to that⊠I was one of a group of 5 people who stayed in part of London for a couple of weeks. We walked into a supermarket on our first day there and someone immediately said âYouâre not from round here are you?â⊠We were in a predominantly Indian/Pakistani/Bangladeshi neighbourhood. We experienced all sorts of behaviour, good and bad, because of our race, in the largest city in the UK (in the 1990s). Does that mean I know what constant racism feels like? No, and I am not going to claim it does.